Thursday, 15 December 2016

Who is the Holy Spirit?

Who is the Holy Spirit?

Look to Jesus

Have you ever wondered who the Holy Spirit is? You are not alone. Followers of John the Baptist had to admit, "We have never even heard that there is a Holy Spirit." (Acts 19:2)

So let’s look into God’s Word to find out some things about the Holy Spirit, and why this is such an important subject:

WHO is the Holy Spirit?

He is the Spirit of God and of Jesus Himself (Romans 8:9). John 16:13 says, “He is the Holy Spirit, who leads into all truth...”

WHAT does the Holy Spirit do?

The Holy Spirit comforts us (John 14:16); prays for us (Romans 8:26); and guides us to the truth (John 16:13). These are just a few things the Holy Spirit does for us.

WHERE is the Holy Spirit?

The Holy Spirit is everywhere (Psalm 139:7-8), yet lives right inside of us. “Your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who lives in you and was given to you by God” (1 Corinthians 6:19 NLT)

WHY did the Holy Spirit come?

To bring glory to Christ and to give us the strength to spread His message everywhere: “But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the end of the earth.” (Acts 1:8)

The Holy Spirit’s Power in Our Life

Galatians 5:16 says, “So I say, let the Holy Spirit guide your lives. Then you won’t be doing what your sinful nature craves.” (NLT)

Other religions tell us to live a certain way, but only Christians have the power to live God’s way: The Holy Spirit living inside us. How do we connect to this power?

You must want to be guided by the Spirit (Matthew 5:6)Confess your sins (1 John 1:9)Give every area of your life to God (Romans 12:1-2)By faith, claim the Holy Spirit’s power, according to his Command (“be filled with the Spirit” - Ephesians 5:18) and his Promise (“when we ask according to His will, he hears us . . .” – 1 John 5:14)

You could talk to God and say something like this:

“Dear God, I need You. I’m sorry for all the wrong things I have done. I want you to help me. I know my sins are forgiven because you sent Jesus to die on the cross. Thank you for forgiving me. I want Jesus Christ to take control of my life. Please fill me with Your Holy Spirit; give me Your wisdom and power to live a life that brings glory to you.”

Look to Jesus...

...to fill you with His Holy Spirit, giving you the strength to live a life that glorifies Him.

Wednesday, 14 December 2016

THE RULE OF 5

THE RULE OF 5




It never ceases to amaze me how much Jesus wants to be a part of our lives by giving us practical, tangible help. When I was discouraged about my inability to get organized, I took the problem to Jesus during my quiet time with Him. “There is no way that I will be able to meet my life goals with this serious state of disorganization,” I told Him. “I try to change, but I need Your help, because without it I keep slipping into my old pattern of doing nothing because I cannot do everything. How can I overcome this problem?”

Faithful as always, He spoke to my heart with words of encouragement about how much He loves me, even though I’m not perfect and don’t accomplish as much as I think I should. Any forward progress is better than nothing, He reminded me. He didn’t design us to succeed every time, only to be able to move forward, to learn and progress, and through that process to eventually become all we can be.

Jesus then gave me a few pointers to help me to make progress in this area, including what I have come to call “the rule of five.” The crux of my problem was that I had accumulated way too many things—clutter that led to a feeling of chaos. Some things I needed, some I had kept because I thought I might need them someday, and some were just plain junk.

Jesus didn’t suggest that I embark on a huge reorganizing project that would have been very taxing and nearly impossible to follow through on, but rather that I start by trying to get rid of five unnecessary things each day. It could be as simple as putting a brochure that I’m through with into the recycle bin. I am also trying to pass on nice things that I will probably never use again, like that item of clothing that would fit if I were to lose some weight, but which would look great on a friend right now. You get the idea. I’ve been able to give lots of small gifts to friends, donate some other things to needy causes, and throw away the junk—and it has brought me back to the joys of simple, uncluttered living.

Of course some days I forget or don’t have time, and I still have a lot of stuff to work through, but the rule of five has given me a plan that works and I no longer constantly feel like an organizational failure.

James 1:22 ESV – But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.

2 Timothy 1:7 ESV – For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.

Colossians 1:29 ESV – For this I toil, struggling with all his energy that he powerfully works within me.









Onyedikachi Kingsley Ogbonna (Surv.)

THE RESTING PLACE

THE RESTING PLACE





(A FRIEND STORY)






I usually enjoyed the ride into town on my motor scooter, but that day my mind wasn’t on the beautiful scenery or the perfect weather. It had been a busy previous two months. One coworker and I had tried to keep up with every aspect of our volunteer work while the rest of our team was away, and now that they were back, instead of the rest I had hoped for, the workload had increased.

I really deserve a break, I thought, but there’s not much chance of that! Enveloped in a fog of self-pity, I never saw the speeding motorcycle until it crashed into me.

In shock, I picked myself up from the street and began pushing the scooter to a repair shop down the street. The shop owner had heard the crash, rushed to help me, and quickly checked me for injuries. “You should go to the hospital,” he said, “and have that hand looked at.”

I looked down and realized I was clutching my left wrist. Several minutes later, serious pain set in.

I clenched my teeth on the ride to the hospital. I’d never felt such strong pain. I thought my wrist might be broken.

As I waited at the hospital to be examined, I closed my eyes and attempted to block out everything for a moment.Jesus, why did this happen? I prayed.

As soon as I formed the question, the answer came. You have been trying to do My work without My power. Come to Me, you who labor and are heavy laden, and you will find rest for your soul. I had gotten so wrapped up in work that I had been neglecting my time with Him. I had thought I needed time to myself, but what I really needed was more time with Him, getting rested and refreshed in spirit.

I’m so sorry, Lord, I answered. Please heal my wrist.

The x-rays showed no serious damage, and the doctor diagnosed it as a bad sprain.

For the next couple of weeks, the brace on my wrist was a constant reminder to not push on in my own strength, but to spend more time with Jesus, drawing on His strength and including Him more in my planning and work. Not surprisingly, everything became easier and went smoother. Despite my sprained wrist, I got more done, not less, and the stress lessened.

Now I try to not let a day go by without taking that time with Jesus.

1 Thessalonians 5:17 ESV – Pray without ceasing.

Psalm 62:5 ESV – For God alone, O my soul, wait in silence, for my hope is from him.

Psalm 46:10 ESV – “Be still, and know that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth!”







Onyedikachi Kingsley Ogbonna (Surv.)

HOW TO SUCCEED

HOW TO SUCCEED





There is a common force that drives most of us: we want to be successful. Regardless of who we are or what our specific goals may be, we want the security and comfort that material success provides, as well as the satisfaction of knowing that our lives are turning out well and count for something.

If we all want the same basic thing, why then are some people so much more successful than others? Circumstances alone aren’t the deciding factor, because some people succeed despite incredibly difficult circumstances. Neither is success determined by natural ability alone, because many gifted people fail, while others who seem less likely to succeed do.

What, then, makes the difference? Some experts say it comes down to organization—establishing priorities, planning, managing time wisely, and so on. Others say creativity is the key, or motivation, or hard work, or single-mindedness, or the ability to work well with others. In reality, to have the greatest chance at success, it takes a combination of these and more. Success, it turns out, is a tricky matter.

Who can help you put it all together?—Who better than God? Look at the balance of His creation. From the tiny atom to the far reaches of the universe, can you imagine anything more intricate, efficient, or enduring? And who has more or better ideas than Him? Or who knows you and your needs better than Him?

And here’s the best part: He wants to help you succeed. He says, “I know the thoughts that I think toward you, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope,” so “commit to the Lord whatever you do, and your plans will succeed.” You and God can make an unstoppable combination.

Proverbs 16:3 NIV – Commit to the LORD whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.

Jeremiah 29:11 NIV – For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

John 14:27 NIV – Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.







Onyedikachi Kingsley Ogbonna (Surv.)

*THE EDGE*: *Episode 4*

*THE EDGE*:  *Episode 4*

  A BMW C3 car manoeuvred at the front of a big duplex in one of the exclusive areas of Lagos. The driver hooted and a young man was seen peeping through a small hole in the gate.! He recognized the car and quickly went to open the gate.
"Ah Oga!" he hailed in his Hausa tone.
"How are you Musa?" Dara replied with a smile as he drove into the compound. He stopped the car and looked beside him to see the confused look on Mide's face.
"Why is your face like this?" he asked like he doesn't know the reason.
"Dara, where are we? I've been asking you since we left my place where we are going. You refused to answer me" she replied with a straight face.
It's not as if she was really happy going out with him anyway.
"Just calm down Ola" he said with a smile, showing off his gap teeth. It's been a quite a while Mide saw him smile. His smile has a way of making her heart melt. "oh my god!,  not that captivating smile again" she thought.
That smile alone is enough to make any anger go down.
"This is the house of the couple who brought up the man that makes your heart go kedike" he said as he smiled again proudly.
"What?! Your parents' house? I can't believe this" exclaimed Mide annoyingly.
If there's one thing Mide hates, it's dressing wrongly for an occasion and so she hates surprises that come in that way. Dara didn't mention a word about where he is taking her to and she got into the problem of knowing what to wear.
"Of course it is. Now get down and let's go inside" he said, without minding the expression on Mide's face.
"Dara, you know i hate surprises like this. How do you expect me to go before your Mum looking as casual as this, like I'm just a school girlfriend" she blotted out angrily.
She was putting on a yellow polo top on a black jean with yellow sandals with a black bag to match. She had always dreamt of the day she'd go visit Dara's family but she never hoped it'd be like this especially dressing so casually.
"What's wrong with the way you are dressed?" Dara asked, looking at her from head to toe. They were still inside the car.
"Oh, please Dara. I don't like this at all and you know it"
"Listen Mide, we are going in now, I'm tired of this your endless nagging" he said as he got down from the car and went to the other side to open for her. He has always been romantic and that's one of the things Mide loved about him. He opened for her and Mide reluctantly got down from the car.
"You don't want to go into your 'would-be-inlaw's house with that face" he said then he added, "besides, you are looking stunning and so beautiful" he complimented her as he held her hand and they both walked into the house.

Dara's family especially his dad welcomed him with open arms. Mide has! never felt so much love from a family she's  meeting for the first time. She got into the house feeling so uncomfortable as she! kept on checking herself but she later got entangled in the conversation she started with Dara's Dad. He's also a Doctor, a surgeon to be precise, so he and Mide had a lot of things to discuss.   Mide could already see herself as Mrs Olabanjo already and so also for the fact that her Dad will get along well with Dara's Dad since they are also both in the same field of work.
  Dara's Mum too grew fond of Mide especially with her simple and casual way of dressing.
"You are so beautiful my dear" she said to her, smiling
"Thank you ma" Mide replied with a smile.

Mide spent the rest of her day with Dara's family. They got up to start leaving after Mide had tried all she could to send a lot of signals to Dara so they'd start going.  She left Desola in her house thinking she and Dara was going for a normal date like they used to. Desola has been calling and sending her a lot of messages telling her she wants to start going home and since she can't leave with Mide's house keys, she had to wait till they come back.
Mide explained to Dara when she had the chance to and Dara assured her they will soon leave. That was 2 hours ago and with the look of things, Dara doesn't look like someone who would leave soon. Besides Dara didn't mention anything about them sleeping over.
"Or is that also part of the surprise?" she thought, then instantly waved it off. She'd never sleep in her would-be-inlaw's house for the first time she's coming to visit them. She and Dara live and work within Lagos so there's no excuse.
A part of Mide is actually happy Dara brought her to visit his parents. It's a sign that their wedding is around the corner and she wouldn't want to spoil his mood now that they are finally on good terms but she couldn't help but consider her friend. And as a journalist, she would have to be at work very early the following morning.
  Dara got up when he couldn't take Mide's nagging anymore. She later subjected to sending him private messages whenever his parents or siblings are around.
"We'd love to leave now Mum" he said, getting up
"Yes ma and we promise to come visit soon" Mide added as she also got up, smiling.
"Alright my dear" his Mum replied with a smile.
  The whole family saw them off to the car and Dara drove off.

  Desola was already tired of waiting for Mide and so she sat down outside. It's already some minutes to 10pm when Dara drove into the compound. He and Mide didn't exactly have an exciting conversation on their way back. In fact Mide could sense something was wrong but she didn't have an idea what it could be. She apologized to Desola immediately she got out of Dara's car.

"Desola, I'm deeply sorry for keeping you waiting" apologized Mide
"Hurrrr it's okay. That's my punishment for not wanting to stand up from watching TV. I'd have gone home when you were going the other time but i didn't   to miss a part of that program" Desola replied, putting the blame on herself childishly. Mide laughed and was still laughing when Dara got out of the car.
"We are sorry Desola" he apologized
"It's okay Dara, by the way how was the outing?" she asked, smiling
"I'd give you the full gist when i see you tomorrow" Mide replied, giving her a wink.
"okay oooh. See tomorrow then" she replied as she walked towards her car.
"bye" Dara and Mide said
"Goodnight" Desola bade them as entered her  car and drove out of the compound.
Dara entered the house angrily immediately Desola drove off. Mide doesn't know what's wrong and hoped to find out so she followed him.

"Dara, what's wrong with you?" she asked immediately she got inside. He was already sitting on the sofa by the time she came in. He got up in a rage..........



To be continued... In the Next  episode

Tuesday, 13 December 2016

Six Things Never, Ever To Do On Company Time

Leadership  #IfIOnlyKnew

Six Things Never, Ever To Do On Company Time

Liz Ryan , CONTRIBUTOR

It’s true that in a white-collar, Knowledge Worker job there is really no such thing as “company time.” You are thinking about your job when you’re in the shower and when you’re folding laundry.

It’s only to be expected that sometimes you will think about your personal life and your to-do list when you’re at work.

We advise our corporate clients to encourage employees to take care of their personal business as soon as they get to work.

If you call your child’s school to set up a meeting or call the vet first moment you arrive at your desk, you’ll be calmer for the rest of the day.

The ten or twenty minutes you’ll invest in taking care of personal obligations the minute you get to work will make the rest of your day much less stressful, because those personal to-do items won’t be nagging at you.

Get them out of the way!

Once your personal action items are put to bed, you can focus on your work. You’ll need mental breaks during the day, and that’s what LinkedIn and Facebook are for (along with many other diversions, from solitaire to Epic Rap Battles of History).

I do not want you to work in a white-collar job at any company that would look down on you for taking mental breaks. You are a person, not a machine!

I have to get up and walk around at least once an hour. My body demands it. Machines may not need stretch breaks, but people do!

Still, there are certain things you cannot do at work and maintain your sterling professional reputation. You can’t plan your wedding or any big, personal event from your desk.

A big project like that is fun to plan, but when you are in  full-on wedding-planner mode it is awkward for your co-workers to interrupt you to ask a question about your day job — the ostensible reason you came to work.

If you must plan your sister’s retirement party and make dozens of phone calls related to it from your desk, then segregate those calls into the same five-to-ten-minute time periods you would otherwise use for mental breaks or a quick walk to the water fountain.

Here are six things never, ever to do on company time.

Financial Affairs

If you have a private office, you’re lucky. If you don’t, please don’t call your financial planner and talk about investments from your desk because it’s impolite to your co-workers.

They don’t want to know where you keep your money and you don’t want them to know. Deal with your finances outside of work, please.

Schoolwork

Don’t do schoolwork at your desk, even if the company is paying for you to go to school. The company pays your tuition and the trade-off is that you do your course work outside of work. Unless you’ve been told specifically that you can study at your desk, don’t do it.

Your Other Job or Your Side Business

Don’t attend to any other job or business you may have from another job! It is impolite and unprofessional to do so. Sadly, I have had to terminate at least half a dozen people for running a side business out of their office.

A side business on its own is a great thing, as long as it is not competitive with your employer — just don’t run the business from your principal job.

Conduct Your Job Search

Do not ever return phone calls from recruiters from your current job. It’s a slap in the face to your co-workers as well as your employer to do so.

Community Projects

It is magnificent when working people are involved in their communities as volunteers, politically active citizens and busy members of their places of worship. However, none of these activities should happen in your workplace.

I have had to terminate two or three people over the years for using the office copier to make hundreds of copies of school fund-raising marketing materials or for running their city council election campaign from their desk. Don’t do it!

Personal Drama

Whatever you do, don’t involve your co-workers in your personal dramas by subjecting them to overheard arguments while they’re trying to get their work done.

Everyone can sympathize with you when you’re going through stressful situations with family members, friends or romantic partners, but you have to conduct those conversations from someplace besides your workstation.

It’s not fair to your co-workers to bring that bad energy into their workplace.

If you are overwhelmed with personal difficulties as all of us are at times, ask your company if they offer an EAP (Employee Assistance Program) for their employees. EAP counselors will listen to your situation over the phone and recommend steps for you to take.

It can be very helpful to talk through your challenges with a sympathetic and knowledgeable person.

Work is stressful enough on its own. Don’t bring personal drama into the mix and make the workday more stressful for yourself and your teammates.

They will be grateful to you for handling personal obligations outside of work – and when you’re at work, for keeping your own and everybody else’s focus on the job!

Liz Ryan is CEO/founderofHuman Workplace and author ofReinvention Roadmap.

Monday, 12 December 2016

BUILDING HABITS

BUILDING HABITS






Believe it or not, they used to build bridges by first flying a kite from one side of the river or gorge to the other. Someone on the opposite side caught the kite and tied a little thicker, stronger string to the end of the kite string, and the men who had sent the kite over pulled the new, thicker string back across. The teams on each side kept repeating the process, next with an even stronger string, then a cord, then a thin rope, then a thicker rope, and so on. Eventually they could pull a small steel cable across, then a heavier one, until finally they had a cable across the expanse that was strong enough to support them and their tools and materials.—And it all started with one tiny kite string!

That’s how habits are formed, both good and bad. Add a thread every day, and before long you can’t break it. Start developing a good habit by taking the first step, however small, in the right direction. Then keep at it until you’ve built up a routine that can’t easily be broken.

Romans 12:2 ESV – Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.

Proverbs 4:20-27 ESV – My son, be attentive to my words; incline your ear to my sayings. Let them not escape from your sight; keep them within your heart. For they are life to those who find them, and healing to all their flesh. Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life. Put away from you crooked speech, and put devious talk far from you.

Ephesians 5:1 ESV – Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children.






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